I believe I answered this your question in my replies to your questions:

• InfoPath, and Calling a instation of Template InfoPath from Event Receiver
• Sharepoint modal popup don't shown when the Infopath form are on the site

In other words, if you do not want to create-maintain your own alternatives to Sharepoint and Infopath and/or to hack-override-subvert their intended usage with all consequences of development&maintenance horrors, you should first acquaint yourself with their principles and follow them instead of trying to insistingly trying to hack and subvert them.

I believe I answered this your question in my replies to your questions:

• InfoPath, and Calling a instation of Template InfoPath from Event Receiver
• Sharepoint modal popup don't shown when the Infopath form are on the site

In other words, if you do not want to create-maintain your own alternatives to Sharepoint and Infopath and/or to hack-override-subvert their intended usage with all consequences of development&maintenance horrors, you should first acquaint yourself with their principles and follow them instead of trying to insistingly trying to hack and subvert them.