I believe I answered this your question in my replies to your questions:  

  - [InfoPath, and Calling a instation of Template InfoPath from Event Receiver][1]   
  - [Sharepoint modal popup don't shown when the Infopath form are on the site][2]

In other words, if you do not want to create-maintain your own alternatives to Sharepoint and Infopath and/or to hack-override-subvert their intended usage with all consequences of development&maintenance horrors, you should first acquaint yourself with their principles and follow them instead of trying to insistingly trying to hack and subvert them.   


  [1]: http://sharepoint.stackexchange.com/a/54911
  [2]: http://sharepoint.stackexchange.com/a/54910