Reading over this link I've decided I want to add this to a feature package I'm building. The feature is only deploying site columns and content types. My question is what should the XML look like to accomplish defining this field definition within my feature package?
Here's another link that describes this functionality. It also provides an example console app that will retrieve this information.
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/microsoft.sharepoint.spfieldlookup.countrelated.aspx