I wish to install SharePoint 2010 standard server but to "show" it the location of an existing SQL server, rather than have the prerquisites installation install its own sql version on the same machine as the SharePoint server's.
The problem is when I run the prerequisites installation it tries to install SQL server automatically without giving me the option to select an exisitng server.
So, to make the question simple - how do I install SP server and SQL server on separate machines?