Try the below CAML Query
<Where>
<Or>
<And>
<Eq>
<FieldRef Name='status' />
<Value Type='Choice'>waiting for approval</Value>
</Eq>
<Eq>
<FieldRef Name='Requestor Manager' />
<Value Type='Integer'>1</Value>
</Eq>
</And>
<And>
<Eq>
<FieldRef Name='status' />
<Value Type='Choice'>Stage2</Value>
</Eq>
<Eq>
<FieldRef Name='Approver' />
<Value Type='Integer'>2</Value>
</Eq>
</And>
</Or>
</Where>
Note: You can use U2U tool to build your CAML Query based on your requirements, to download the tool check U2U tool